I didn’t posted Tania’s daily Home-school progress these
couple of days because we lent our camera to Tania’s uncle and our internet
connection was a very troublesome matter. Tania’s Mommy’s camera is not the
sophisticated hi-end with the built-in camera to be use as substitute. However,
Tania still learns every day. She has finished the ‘learning book’, even the
one that required reading and writing. The reading part she persuaded us to
read it to her and she will answer. For the writing part she will tell us what
the answer is and then ask us to dictate the letter. She is getting better and
better at ‘drawing’ letters.
In order to support the growth of her writing, I gave her
sheets of letter tracing to help her with controlling her pencil strokes. However,
I did not push her to finish the whole page and only do it when she has the
mood. We do this between 15 – 30 minutes every day. Other time, we learn
creatively and artistically.
top: Letter tracing. Bottom left: Counting puzzle. Bottom Right: Color by number |
Last week, we took Tania to the traditional market, simply
to introduce her to it. We mostly took her to the supermarket or mall to shop.
But local vegetables etc we usually get from traditional market and we need to
go there very early and she’s not up yet. However, we timed her sleep and able
to took her last week.
We asked her what she thinks about the traditional market. She
said it is noisy, too many people, smelly and dirty. HAH! Typical city spoilt
kid answer. So to make sure she does not turned in to one. We (I) am determined
to take her more often. We talk about how the people plant the vegetables and
other crops and then take it to the traditional market to sell. That money will
be use to buy food, clothes and pay school fee of their children. And that we
are helping each other by purchasing from traditional market. I hope in the
long run, she will be able to understand and look past the smelly and dirty
place to see a way to live sustainably. YAY! To local produce!
Now, you may think this is a bit too much of information.
But I think Tania is more than capable to understand this. And Kids need to
learn the reality and understand what they can contribute to it. Tania already understands
Mommy and Daddy do not have lots of Money to buy her EVERYTHING that she
wanted. We will buy her what she need but when she wanted something we will see
whether mom and dad have enough money to spend or not. Usually when she said,
Can I have this or that to a toy or books, and we have no money, we are very
comfortable to tell her, “I am sorry dear. Mommy and Daddy don’t have money
now. Can we get it some other time? Or if you really wanted it we can make a
piggybank especially for this?”. She always obliged and happily went along. She
understands now that Mommy and Daddy works and get paid and the money is used
to buy many things in our lives and we need to make sure we have enough for
everything. I am blessed to have such an understanding kid.
I feel very blessed to live and to raise a child
in this life situation. We have enough money and a little bit more to cover everything
in life. We are not rich in money and swamp in treasures. My child grows in
reality and knowing that she need to work hard to earn living and to give
thanks for whatever we are given. I do hope when our life gets way better than
today. All of us will not forget to give thanks and to remain in simplicity. --
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